Hold Your Mood to Hold Your Man

Modern Geisha Mastery #4 - The Rules says, "Be hard to get, easy to be with." But what does that look like? Are you easily triggered and highly emotional? Do you overreact or feel offended at the slightest withdrawal? e.g. he didn't call or text when he said he would.

 The number one complaint men have about women is being moody, insecure, and having high levels of neuroticism. Most of it is likely due to childhood trauma, inner child wounds, or being hurt from past relationships. Men want to marry women who are beautiful, calm, poised, and self-possessed. 

In one of my signature teachings, I teach "a way of being," which is about emotional mastery, spiritual discipline, and how to walk with graceful dignity. This is among the most powerful weapons a Modern Geisha has in her arsenal for maintaining a successful relationship.

If you find yourself emotionally provoked by your boyfriend, significant other, or husband, and are struggling to maintain a good mood, this audio is for you. 

I discuss the anthropological history behind women's mood shifts in relationships, as well as the male psyche in reaction to strong moods. I tell the story of how my own moods affected my marriage, along with what I learned from these lessons. 

Finally, I teach the practical art of "holding your mood" -- getting your needs met without stress, fuss, or counterproductive outbursts. Once you learn this art, you will become a man's dream partner.

My client booked a coaching package with me after listening to my audio, “Hold Your Mood to Hold Your Man." When finished our sessions and I didn’t hear from her for a long time. Then one day out of the blue, she sent me this email. She started coaching at the age of 44 and got married for the first time at 46. This goes to show you that it's never too late to learn The Rules but I wouldn't wait until after 40 to be happily married and have a good life if you could have it sooner.

💌 "Hi Kim, Remember me? You coached me a while back. I listened to our coaching sessions and re-read The Rules. At times, it was very hard but I pretty much became a Rules Girl and met the man of my dreams. He is a kind gentle soul, as well as a financially secure engineer.

Sometimes I can't believe God gave me this kind of happiness. Your post asking if your clients would like you to coach us as a client or as your own child made me think to myself. I didn't always like what you had to say when we worked together, nor did I like the book. I still struggle to do The Rules. But I would never have been able to make it work had I not listened to your advice and re-read the book.

Also, what has helped is keeping my emotions under control, not venting too much about personal problems. In the end, I really do believe men just want an attractive mentally stable woman to come home to. I used to think it was so hard to meet and maintain a relationship. And at times I still have to work on it--but I know that's really what this man seems to want."

🇻🇳 Update: A Vietnamese transcript and audio are now available for Vietnamese Rules Girls. If you already purchased it on Gumroad then you can download 📲 the app on your phone and access all the updated and new files 💾 added in your Gumroad Library.